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Congratulations – You Are Becoming A Fully Human Human

March 26, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

Congratulations – You Are Becoming A Fully Human Human

___________ As you begin to access your anger constructively and with ease you will transform your life and those around you. You will tap into liberation - the key to enlightenment. ____________ We are only truly human as we allow our emotions to flow through us - uninterrupted - like elixirs cleansing us and delivering us into each new moment, 'Now'. A being who does not feel emotions is not a human.  They are an Continue Reading

‘A New Anger Map’

March 25, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

‘A New Anger Map’

Here is a simple guide map for empowering you through healthy anger … 1.            Notice when you are feeling anger. 2.            Ask yourself:  "Which of the '3 Purposes of Anger' is this?"  (Has a boundary been violated; is a boundary about to be breached; is my soul calling me to grow?) 3.            Notice any tendency in you to direct this anger inward or aggressively outward.  Get yourself into your Observer Continue Reading

Healing Ourselves – Healing Our Planet – Part Two

March 25, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

Healing Ourselves – Healing Our Planet – Part Two

When we - individually and collectively - learn and practice the '3rd Way of Expressing Anger Constructively', there is no longer a danger of destruction in the face of our anger. In fact, our anger becomes purely constructive. It dismantles that which is obstructive to well-being. And in its former place it creates something refreshing and new. We might aptly call this 'de-constructive' - dismantling that which is untrue, that which is Continue Reading

Healing Ourselves – Healing Our Planet – Part One

March 24, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

Healing Ourselves – Healing Our Planet – Part One

Our pure anger energy has the power to blast us out of perpetual suffering and into a new realm of what it means to be human. Our anger - just like a rocket being propelled out of the earth's atmosphere into 'space' and ultimately into the magnetic field of another planet or the moon - is the power to propel us there. Without access to our anger, we are all but doomed. For no other human or non-human energy - beyond the purity of LOVE Continue Reading

The Soul’s Calling

March 20, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

The Soul’s Calling

Anger is always the soul calling us. Either it is identifying to us - through our experience of pain and betrayal - where a boundary needs to be created to repair and thus to preserve our integrity. Or it is identifying to us pro-actively - through evoking our anger or even our rage prior to a potential boundary breaching event - that a boundary we have in place is non-negotiable. Or - our anger, one of our most valuable inner Continue Reading

The Faces of Anger

March 19, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

The Faces of Anger

There are many faces of anger.  Just like the Inuit who have some twenty-two words to describe the subtleties and nuances of what we call 'snow', there are many shades of anger. Let's explore some of these - to unmask them, shifting us into power - our ability to navigate our way through them and into greater joy. Frustration, irritation, edginess, resentment, passive aggressiveness, impatience, cynicism, sarcasm, pointed jokes, withdrawal, Continue Reading

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #9 – Courage

February 19, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #9 – Courage

Courage is the tipping point.  It is the eye of the needle, the fulcrum point between the downward suction of debilitating emotional states and the upward spiral of life. If you were to ask people randomly on a street corner if they are familiar with the experience of one thing going wrong and then a 'mud slide' of things in their life falling apart, most people would immediately, triumphantly list to you a litany of examples.  If you were to Continue Reading

3 Ways to Engage in Any Moment – #3

January 30, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

3 Ways to Engage in Any Moment – #3

The third option - just like the 3rd Way to Express Anger - is largely unknown within our human culture.  It is what meditators becomes so proficient at.  It is simply observing. Witnessing. The power of the witness is little understood amongst humanity.  Like in the quantum physics "observer effect", the power of the witnessing mind 'holds space' for transformation within the system that it is witnessing. We readily assume that, to Continue Reading

3 Ways to Engage in Any Moment – #1

January 24, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

3 Ways to Engage in Any Moment – #1

Before we begin, let me draw to your attention that there are 3 Ways to Interface with Any Moment - and thus with any of the emotions that we are about to explore. The first option is denial - to 'not notice', to turn a blind eye, to be unconscious of.  Denial serves a temporary purpose - sometimes.  It allows us to remain unaware of something until we have the sufficient maturity, inner resources and attention available to deal with it.  Continue Reading

What Anger Is – Part Two

November 14, 2011 By Ariole K. Alei

What Anger Is – Part Two

When uninterrupted, emotions 'arc' - just like a storm. First, there is a chill in the air, a gentle stirring.  Then there is a mounting of energy, a building up of intrinsic power.  Then there is a peak, a crest.  Then there is a descent, into nothingness, as if the 'arc' never was.  Yet … the air is gentler, softer, clearer after the storm. As humans in our codependent culture we have been taught to identify with our emotions and thus Continue Reading

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Ariole K. Alei is respected as a global visionary for over 20 years. She is an executive life and leadership coach, author of eight books, speaker, facilitator, transformational process designer, tele summit leader, mentor, dancer, choreographer, meditator and yogini. She has met personally with His Holiness the Dalai Lama and other world leaders to discuss her visions of “A New Model of Exemplary Global Leadership”. She has been passionately bringing out the best in others since she was a child. Ariole has co-founded two corporate consulting practices – “bringing spirit into the concrete world” – and two non-profit societies. She is the initiator of numerous transformative consciousness explorations including "A Global Gathering of Minds", "Lifting the Lid", and "The H.O.P.E. Retreats". Ariole generously shares pragmatic and profound ‘routes’ to deeper insight, peace and awakening. She lives in the Rocky Mountains of Canada. "We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Einstein "You must be the change you want to see in the world." - Mahatma Gandhi "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." - Margaret Meade "Carpe Diem - Seize the Day"

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