When we - individually and collectively - learn and practice the '3rd Way of Expressing Anger Constructively', there is no longer a danger of destruction in the face of our anger. In fact, our anger becomes purely constructive. It dismantles that which is obstructive to well-being. And in its former place it creates something refreshing and new. We might aptly call this 'de-constructive' - dismantling that which is untrue, that which is Continue Reading
3 Ground Rules for Moving Anger – #3
3. Don't hurt anything else. This is my personal value system. I know that everything is consciousness. If this fits for you, own this 3rd Rule. Nature is dying, quite literally, for us to release our pent up anger, pain and sorrow. As we do, She knows we'll be refreshed. Our Vision will be clear. Our Hearts will be open. We will awaken - as if from a long dream, a nightmare - and remember that we love each other - Continue Reading
What Keeps Us From Being Leaders?
What keeps us from being Leaders is our lack of faith in ourselves. When we mute and ignore our greatest passions, we lose touch with that which is imbued with the greatest meaning to us. We lose clarity about what we most want. We become, to varying degrees, numb. From this place of disempowerment, we doubt that we can make a real difference. "Never underestimate what one person can do to effect change. Indeed, it is the only thing Continue Reading
Subtle Energy Fields – Part 1
A blog is a web log – a web-based journal, the focus and content of which the author chooses. I’d like to open a new Category at URLight – ‘Ariole’s Insights’. In essence, all of the posts at URLight are my insights. Many of them are excerpts from my Books, and some of them are written ‘in the moment’ as a way of sharing my inspirations as I receive them. I recognize the universality of human Continue Reading
Feng Shui in Our Selves
The only way – in my view – to create ‘clear energy spaces’ is to create clear energy selves. “I want you to know the profound affect/effect you have on my life. I learned so much about who I'm not and who I really am in your presence. And it's that presence I need to tell you about. You live your life so clean and clear that the energy space that you radiate allows others to step into that cleanliness and clarity. Thank you. Continue Reading
Living a Yogic Life – Part 1
I’m meeting more and more people who are expressing their yearning to live a life of deeper meaning. Dissatisfied with their day-to-day rhythms, and the emptiness they are beginning to recognize, they are wanting more. The challenge is this: Firstly, as a species we have ‘temporarily lost’ – like a muscle, we have let atrophy – our ability to vision alternate futures. We are conditioned – modeled by the majority of Continue Reading
4 Steps to Plenty – Part 3
It can be very helpful, too, to find a group of people (or even just one) to practice these steps with. For your collective energy will make the rocking back, gaining momentum and determination, and revving forward so much quicker, easier and more fun. "Life Was Never Meant to Be a Struggle" – Stuart Wilde "When did you sign a Contract to struggle?" – Ariole K. Alei[1] Learning the steps to Continue Reading
Contribution
There is a growing malaise in our culture, as more people work longer hours with less satisfaction – and in greater isolation – doing things that they know are unhealthy and contributing mindlessly to their individual and collective frustration. This is a growing epidemic – evident in everything from obesity to addictions to violence to suicide. So many people do work that they do not love, and stay in relationships Continue Reading
The Power of Anger
One of the most effective ways to "Emotionally Cleanse and Detoxify" is to develop a healthy relationship with anger. Did you know? Anger is your ‘rocket fuel’! Are you often depressed? Do you feel stuck in your life? Do you live in a ‘fog’? Are you sick and tired of experiencing mediocrity – of not getting the life experience you want? Around the world, humans have traditionally had a very Continue Reading
Mental Cleansing and Detoxification
In addition to the suggestions in "Cleansing and Detoxification" and "Physical Cleansing and Detoxification", notice the vices / addictions that interfere with your mental clarity and responsiveness. For example, explore significantly reducing - or abstaining from - your exposure to: * Television * Constant audio stimulation (radio, iPod, etcetera) * News * Tabloid Continue Reading