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Wander Time, Empty Time

February 19, 2011 By Ariole K. Alei

So many people have asked me to write a sequel to “Savasana – The Deepest Rest Around!”.  Inspired by the rejuvenation and refreshment that Savasana invites, here is its ‘sister’ …

            Most people in the western world – and millions if not billions in the eastern world, too – are standing both feet fully planted on the rapidly accelerating conveyer belt of ‘busyness’.  Caught in an ego warp of ‘the busier you are, the more valuable you must be’, there is tremendous pressure to ‘keep up the speed’.

            This is detrimental to your wellbeing – and to our wellbeing as a human culture, not to mention our species in relation to other species.

            How do we break this spell?  How do we slow this perpetual motion machine?  How do we ‘get off’ – and still survive, if not begin to thrive?

            My anticipation is that you will thrive far more fully and deliciously as you begin to explore ‘Wander Time, Empty Time’.

            Why is ‘Wander Time, Empty Time’ so important?  It has everything to do with creating space / time for you to digest your life experiences.  I describe this potent concept in H.O.P.E. = Healing Ourselves and Planet Earth – A Blueprint for Personal and Collective Change, and in even more intricate detail in my forthcoming book The Ego and The Soul – A Map for Humanity’s Ultimate Survival.

            I used to be a person with high energy on all common levels – physical, mental, and emotional.  For the first twenty-seven years of my life, I was in constantly joyous activity (except for deliciously deep sleep!).  My life was highly scheduled, and highly accomplished.  Until I began to ‘wake up’.

            When my spiritual awakening begin at warp speed in the summer of 1988 – my pace shifted.  Learning swiftly how to ‘live in two worlds at once’ (the physical and the meta-physical), suddenly much of my energy was being called to the ‘non-physical me’.  I began to need – at regular intervals (at least once a week) ‘Wander Time’ – time when I had absolutely nothing scheduled.

            My pace began to slow and open wider.  ‘Empty Time’ became a needed element in every day.

            This ‘Unscheduled Time’ is full – full of integrating subtle energy experiences, as well as integrating and ‘digesting’ my day-to-day physical life.

            My suggestion is that you may need this, too.  ‘Empty Time’.  ‘Wander Time’ (wherein you have no destination – no where to be, no thing to do).   ‘Unscheduled Time’.

            To give you an example (one of many), when my husband entered my life, he brought with him the strong desire to not schedule our Sundays.  And so for eleven and a half years, I’ve enjoyed Sundays ‘without a clock’.  Literally, we turn the clocks around – out of view – by Saturday evening (if not before).  We ‘wander’.  We flow.  We follow our inspirations.  And this ‘one day’ seems like a blissful eternity.

            On Sundays we schedule nothing – absolutely no plans.  On Sundays we experience accelerated insights, vantages, and perspectives – on our own lives and on life in general – the universe, its teachings, the human family, its challenges and ardent plights.

            By Sunday evening we are refreshed – as if we’ve enjoyed an entire week of holiday.  It’s absolute bliss.

Questions to Ponder:  How scheduled is your life?  When can you begin experimenting with ‘scheduling’ unscheduled time – time to wander, time to flow?

As you experiment with ‘Wander Time, Empty Time’, notice how your nervous system shifts.  Notice how your breathing shifts.  Notice how your tone of voice shifts.  Notice what you begin to notice …  🙂

Are you interested in 1-1 support in exploring this further for yourself?

* Images with gratitude to farm4.static.flickr.com, yahkodesign.com, cache2.allpostersimages.com

Filed Under: Ego's New Role, HOPE = Healing Ourselves and Planet Earth, Intuition's Awakening, Lifting the Lid, Living IN 'The Power of Now' Tagged With: accelerate, bliss, busyness, creating space, digestion, flow, healing, meditation, refresh, relax, rest, savasana, spiritual awakening, wander, yoga

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Ariole K. Alei is respected as a global visionary for over 20 years. She is an executive life and leadership coach, author of eight books, speaker, facilitator, transformational process designer, tele summit leader, mentor, dancer, choreographer, meditator and yogini. She has met personally with His Holiness the Dalai Lama and other world leaders to discuss her visions of “A New Model of Exemplary Global Leadership”. She has been passionately bringing out the best in others since she was a child. Ariole has co-founded two corporate consulting practices – “bringing spirit into the concrete world” – and two non-profit societies. She is the initiator of numerous transformative consciousness explorations including "A Global Gathering of Minds", "Lifting the Lid", and "The H.O.P.E. Retreats". Ariole generously shares pragmatic and profound ‘routes’ to deeper insight, peace and awakening. She lives in the Rocky Mountains of Canada. "We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Einstein "You must be the change you want to see in the world." - Mahatma Gandhi "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." - Margaret Meade "Carpe Diem - Seize the Day"

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