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Healthy Humans = Healthy Relationships – With Each Other, With Nature, With Self / Source

February 9, 2011 By Ariole K. Alei

It is only when we are healthy that we can be the core – the center – of something else which is healthy.

            Our relationships cannot be healthy if we are not.

            Our relationships with Each Other cannot be healthy if we are not.

            Our relationship with Nature cannot be healthy if we are not.

            Our relationship with God, Source, All That Is cannot be healthy if we are not.

            What is our primary relationship?  It is our relationship with our Self.

            Our woundedness – no matter how small and minor or huge and gaping – distorts our experiences of everything else.

            Our woundedness has us relate to others in a wounded way.

            Our woundedness has us relate to the Earth in a wounded way.

            Our woundedness has us relate to our Divinity in a wounded way.  We doubt our Divinity[1].  We feel shame in relation to it.  We perceive ourselves as small.  Impure.  Undeserving.  And then we compensate for this wounded mis-perception of ourselves with grandiose behavior.  We believe that Earth is here to serve us.  That we are her masters.  That she is our slave.

            As we heal our inner wounding, we discover that there are no masters, and no slaves.  We re-discover that everything is equal.  That our co-creative existence is our source of joy.  Shared joy.  We are happy because all is well.


[1]  We are all Divine beings.  Each of us is an aspect of the Source.  We are more benevolently powerful and potent than we imagine – as long as our wounds filter this, our True Nature, from our perception.

* Excerpt from H.O.P.E. = Healing Ourselves and Planet Earth by Ariole K. Alei.

 Read more in “The Solution – Applying Our Brilliance to a Larger World View” and “Stepping Up Into Our Genius” forthcoming  🙂

 Questions to Ponder:   How would you describe your relationship with your Self, with Others, with Nature, with Life?  Is it respect-ful, joy-us, caring, wonder-full – or is it drab, discriminatory, critical, afraid?

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* Images with gratitude to saus.k12.ca.us, hand-raiser.com, standupforamerica.wordpress.com

Filed Under: * 2012, Being A Leader, Ego's New Role, HOPE = Healing Ourselves and Planet Earth, Intuition's Awakening, Lifting the Lid, Living IN 'The Power of Now', The Power of Anger Tagged With: All That Is, benevolent, brilliance, co-creative, core, Divinity, ecology, God, healthy, master, nature, relationship, respect, Self, slave, Source, sustainability, True Nature, wounded

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Ariole K. Alei is respected as a global visionary for over 20 years. She is an executive life and leadership coach, author of eight books, speaker, facilitator, transformational process designer, tele summit leader, mentor, dancer, choreographer, meditator and yogini. She has met personally with His Holiness the Dalai Lama and other world leaders to discuss her visions of “A New Model of Exemplary Global Leadership”. She has been passionately bringing out the best in others since she was a child. Ariole has co-founded two corporate consulting practices – “bringing spirit into the concrete world” – and two non-profit societies. She is the initiator of numerous transformative consciousness explorations including "A Global Gathering of Minds", "Lifting the Lid", and "The H.O.P.E. Retreats". Ariole generously shares pragmatic and profound ‘routes’ to deeper insight, peace and awakening. She lives in the Rocky Mountains of Canada. "We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Einstein "You must be the change you want to see in the world." - Mahatma Gandhi "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." - Margaret Meade "Carpe Diem - Seize the Day"

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