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It Doesn’t Have to Be This Way – Part 1

April 6, 2011 By Ariole K. Alei

When I was a young child, I had many insights.  I still do.

            One of my earliest insights arose from a deep, embodied discomfort with how the world is.  Before I knew language to describe adult systems I knew that, “It doesn’t have to be this way.”

            One of my early childhood Visions / Knowings was this:  We would experience complete global harmony if everyone contributed their gifts.  And in exchange for everyone contributing their gifts, their needs would be met.

            I sensed a great inequity in how we measure the value and worth of people’s contributions.  A janitor’s job is valued much less than a carpenter’s, and a carpenter’s much less than a surgeon’s. 

            If we valued the harmonious workings of our culture, then we would recognize that everyone plays an integral part.  We wouldn’t have the gross imbalance of ‘valuing’ that we currently have.

            I was refreshed when I returned from the Amazon and was handed an anthropological research paper.

            I had spoken aloud my curiosity of whether there might be a living example of such a model of human culture – already existent, Now.

           There is at least one. 

            

            This paper identified the Kayapo, a tribe of indigenous people in the Amazon who currently exemplify this holistic model of society. 

            In this particular Amazonian tribe everyone has all the skills he or she needs in order to completely survive on their own.

            And they have a special skill without which the community cannot survive.

            In other words, the individual and the community are completely symbiotic – the individual doesn’t need the community to survive – yet it does to thrive.  And simultaneously the community cannot survive without the gifted contributions of all of its individuals.

* Excerpt from H.O.P.E. = Healing Ourselves and Planet Earth – A Blueprint for Personal and Collective Change by Ariole K. Alei.

Read more in recent posts, plus “It Doesn’t Have to Be This Way – Part 2” forthcoming – all excerpts from  H.O.P.E. = Healing Ourselves and Planet Earth  🙂

Questions to Ponder:   What have you noticed, throughout the span of your lifetime, that doesn’t actually have to be the way it currently is?  What can you do with the power in this insight?

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*Images with gratitude to Charles Schulz, rainforestfoundation.uk.org

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Ariole K. Alei is respected as a global visionary for over 20 years. She is an executive life and leadership coach, author of eight books, speaker, facilitator, transformational process designer, tele summit leader, mentor, dancer, choreographer, meditator and yogini. She has met personally with His Holiness the Dalai Lama and other world leaders to discuss her visions of “A New Model of Exemplary Global Leadership”. She has been passionately bringing out the best in others since she was a child. Ariole has co-founded two corporate consulting practices – “bringing spirit into the concrete world” – and two non-profit societies. She is the initiator of numerous transformative consciousness explorations including "A Global Gathering of Minds", "Lifting the Lid", and "The H.O.P.E. Retreats". Ariole generously shares pragmatic and profound ‘routes’ to deeper insight, peace and awakening. She lives in the Rocky Mountains of Canada. "We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Einstein "You must be the change you want to see in the world." - Mahatma Gandhi "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." - Margaret Meade "Carpe Diem - Seize the Day"

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