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You are here: Home / Blog - Inspire / Esoteric (Soul) / * 2012 / Leaders and Followers – Part 1

Leaders and Followers – Part 1

July 18, 2011 By Ariole K. Alei

It was as I was flying home from the UN Earth Summit – twenty-eight hours in flight – that I received this, amongst many, insights:  Most people are followers; few are leaders.

            This revelation dawned in my awareness – not as criticism, rather as a necessary fact to be recognized, should I wish to truly participate in affecting any real and long-lasting, beneficial change.

            The minority are leaders.  What does this actually mean?

            It means that the majority of people on this planet – for reasons we could explore, though at this point, this would be mere distraction – require to be shown, in tangible demonstration, that something ‘new’ is a) safe b) possible c) desirable and d) that they won’t stand out (feel humiliated) if they leave the flock and try it out.

            Very few people, relatively speaking, are ‘wired’ with the drive, willingness, and capability to ‘map new territories’.  Most people prefer – for whatever reasons (in my view, this is all to do with consciousness and the degree of undigested suffering they have endured) to stay with what they already are familiar with – even if it is ‘hell’.

            So with this new revelation fresh and received with gratitude by me, I launched forth, recognizing that I am one of the minority.  And with this realization was born the recognition of the response-ability accompanying it: aptitude brings with it a call to serve.

            I could either abdicate my aptitude – and dig my head in the ‘I’m fine, my life is just about me’ sand.  (I’m not wired for this – this isn’t actually an option for me!)  Or I could rise to it.

            Coupled with this was the realization that – to have time and energy available to contemplate suffering and needs beyond our own immediate, personal ones is a luxury.  Billions of people in the world live in subsistence: every day, they repeat the basic necessities of sourcing clean (or not so clean) water, cooking and heating fuel, and food.  This is the totality of their material existence.  The majority – if not all – of their outward energy is required for this.

            And so … what about the rest of us?  What about all of us – hundreds of millions of us – who have been born into and possibly contributed to the ‘evolution’ of our society, such that we a) buy our groceries from others who prepare them b) buy our shelter from someone else who builds it c) turn on the tap and the switches and receive water and light and heat from others who give us access to it … and the like?

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Ariole K. Alei is respected as a global visionary for over 20 years. She is an executive life and leadership coach, author of eight books, speaker, facilitator, transformational process designer, tele summit leader, mentor, dancer, choreographer, meditator and yogini. She has met personally with His Holiness the Dalai Lama and other world leaders to discuss her visions of “A New Model of Exemplary Global Leadership”. She has been passionately bringing out the best in others since she was a child. Ariole has co-founded two corporate consulting practices – “bringing spirit into the concrete world” – and two non-profit societies. She is the initiator of numerous transformative consciousness explorations including "A Global Gathering of Minds", "Lifting the Lid", and "The H.O.P.E. Retreats". Ariole generously shares pragmatic and profound ‘routes’ to deeper insight, peace and awakening. She lives in the Rocky Mountains of Canada. "We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Einstein "You must be the change you want to see in the world." - Mahatma Gandhi "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." - Margaret Meade "Carpe Diem - Seize the Day"

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