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Leaders and Followers – Part 2

July 21, 2011 By Ariole K. Alei

For those of us who live lives where (yes, most of us do work … and yet) we have ‘leisure time’ – what do we use this leisure time, and energy, and attention for?

            We are droned to spend it glued in front of the television, the iPod, the cell phone, the computer, the … whatever electronic device you wish to name – without discernment.  Without using these ‘tools’ as just that – communication devices that can deliver enriching, meaningful information that can assist us to transform our world.  Instead, most of us use them to numb out – to distract ourselves from what truly needs attention.  And there is so much of that.

            How many of us, proportionately, feel empowered and confident in ourselves to dedicate our time, energy, and attention helping?  Helping someone in need.  Volunteering to plant or tend a community garden.  Driving elderly to necessary appointments.  Inventing home-grown devices that reduce toxic wastes.  Developing peaceful games for our children and our neighbor’s children to play.  You name it: how many of us use our time, energy, and attention in dedication to ingenuity?  How many of us waste it?  What does ‘wasting’ it look like, sound like, feel like?  What does treating our time, energy, and attention as precious commodities, to be wisely spent look like, sound like, feel like?

            What is the malaise that keeps so many of us numb?

            Asking questions …  Inquiring deeply … Not accepting ‘what is’ as the ‘status quo’ – meaning ‘that’s just the way it is, and it can’t be different’ …   I don’t buy that.

            We all can – and do – make a difference, through our actions and our apathy.  We contribute to well-being or we detract from it – ours and the ripple effect out from us that ultimately touches everyone and everything – with every breath we take.

            What will it take to re-infuse people with confidence in themselves?  With respect in themselves?  With faith in themselves?  With motivation to effect goodness?  To contribute to constructive, community / society focused change?

            A poster I came across last night for the Celtic band ‘Baka Beyond’ highlighted a quote something like this: “If you don’t dance in your seats, you must be either dead, or so deliriously intoxicated with their charm that you’re basking in another world.”

            Which of these describes you?  Dead.  Or deliriously in ‘heaven’?

            We are all leaders, in our core.  Like seeds that have been planted long, long ago, we are gradually – each and every one of us – beginning to germinate, to bud.  One day – one splendid, glorious day – we will all wake up and realize: each one of us has always held magnificent power inside ourselves.  And all of us have held equal wisdom and equanimity (love of the whole) to know how to cherish and offer it to the whole.

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Ariole K. Alei is respected as a global visionary for over 20 years. She is an executive life and leadership coach, author of eight books, speaker, facilitator, transformational process designer, tele summit leader, mentor, dancer, choreographer, meditator and yogini. She has met personally with His Holiness the Dalai Lama and other world leaders to discuss her visions of “A New Model of Exemplary Global Leadership”. She has been passionately bringing out the best in others since she was a child. Ariole has co-founded two corporate consulting practices – “bringing spirit into the concrete world” – and two non-profit societies. She is the initiator of numerous transformative consciousness explorations including "A Global Gathering of Minds", "Lifting the Lid", and "The H.O.P.E. Retreats". Ariole generously shares pragmatic and profound ‘routes’ to deeper insight, peace and awakening. She lives in the Rocky Mountains of Canada. "We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Einstein "You must be the change you want to see in the world." - Mahatma Gandhi "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." - Margaret Meade "Carpe Diem - Seize the Day"

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