The second option is to wallow in it. Many people in our culture are masters at this. The media thrives on it. Wallowing is about drama. It is about climbing inside a 'story' and stoking its fire with our attention. It is about exacerbating what is simply something to deal with - into something so colossal that it 'entertains' us. When we wallow in a moment - or in an emotion - we temporarily lose perspective. We believe that what Continue Reading
3 Ways to Engage in Any Moment – #1
Before we begin, let me draw to your attention that there are 3 Ways to Interface with Any Moment - and thus with any of the emotions that we are about to explore. The first option is denial - to 'not notice', to turn a blind eye, to be unconscious of. Denial serves a temporary purpose - sometimes. It allows us to remain unaware of something until we have the sufficient maturity, inner resources and attention available to deal with it. Continue Reading
Is There Such A Thing As An ‘Anger Issue’?
It’s an interesting question to ask. We typically think of ‘anger issues’ as anger towards – someone or something. As in, “I have an issue with you / with that. It / you evoke anger in me.” Often, we perceive that our experience of anger is the other person / the other thing's ‘fault’. The ‘issue’ is perceived as being ‘out there’ – held by that which triggers, or evokes, our anger. Sometimes, ‘anger issue’ is used to describe a Continue Reading
Why Meditate? – Part 2
In the sweet stillness of our body and our mind, we begin to open our central channel – the internal 'shaft' which links our energy centers – our 'chakras'. And with this aligning and gradual, subtle opening of our chakras, the King/Queen of them all – our Crown chakra – begins to open. And we begin, on conscious and unconscious levels of our awareness, to align with our 'Vertical reality'. We begin to orient ourselves 'up' … rather than Continue Reading
Why Meditate? – Part 1
Why is Meditation recommended so highly in conjunction with abundance and creating what we want in life? Because when we meditate, we still the Warrior and the Magician and we naturally attune directly and with ease to the King/Queen and the Lover. When we meditate, we still our body to the point that our physiological processes quieten, as if we are moving towards sleep. And yet we are more keenly, Continue Reading
4 Steps to Plenty – Part 3
It can be very helpful, too, to find a group of people (or even just one) to practice these steps with. For your collective energy will make the rocking back, gaining momentum and determination, and revving forward so much quicker, easier and more fun. "Life Was Never Meant to Be a Struggle" – Stuart Wilde "When did you sign a Contract to struggle?" – Ariole K. Alei[1] Learning the steps to Continue Reading
4 Steps to Plenty – Part 1
There are four rudimentary steps to achieving abundance in any area of our lives. They are … Know What You Want Focus Your Attention Upon It Be Aware of How You Feel Get Out of The Way When mastered, these four steps lead you to a bounty of creation each and every time. With mastery you will come to experience a great sense of relief and confidence in your understanding of these four Continue Reading
Your ‘Predominant Pulse’ – Part 2
As we begin to give the seeds of our gifts, we discover more about them. We begin to recognize our true worth, which is amazing. It is only our wounds that have had us believe otherwise. This has been the illusion, the greatest 'loss' of all Time. As we begin to know our True Selves, we develop Self respect. This alone is worth living for – the experience of forgiving ourselves for the illusory Continue Reading
Your ‘Predominant Pulse’ – Part 1
One of my key observations is this: No matter how much someone wants something, and seems to train their attention on it, if their 'Predominant Pulse' is still one of wounding, this is what they will attract. It is only when we change the nature of our 'Predominant Pulse' to our true story – which is that we are inherently good, deserving and beautiful – that we can begin to attract, allow, and receive that which we most deeply Continue Reading
Emotional Intelligence
Why is ‘Emotional Intelligence’ so important in ‘piercing the veil’? We are cohesive systems. Our physical sensations and muscular holding patterns, our feelings and emotions, and our thoughts are all perfect mirrors of each other. If – as in “Piercing the Veil” – it is true that most of humanity, throughout much of Time, has focused its mind – its ‘thinking’ – ‘beneath the horizon’ (thinking thoughts about the Continue Reading