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How to Use the ‘Map of Emotions’ – The Practice

March 10, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

How to Use the ‘Map of Emotions’ – The Practice

____________ This is a practice. Just like any great artist or athlete, mastery arises through practice. ____________ This is a practice.  Just like a great artist or athlete, mastery comes through practice.  Every time you feel miserable, take a 'time out' to begin at Step 1 and work your way through to Step 4 or 5, whichever is appropriate for you. The more often you practice these simple Steps, you will personally gain an Continue Reading

How to Use the ‘Map of Emotions’ – The Steps

March 6, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

How to Use the ‘Map of Emotions’ – The Steps

____________ Why are we not taught this in kindergarten? This is absolutely essential in the 'guidebook' of how to successfully be a human. ____________ Step 1.                        Become self-aware.  Notice how you are feeling.  Does it feel good?  Does it serve you?  Does it inspire you?  Does it support your mental, emotional and physical health?  If you are already feeling good - great!  You may wish to improve it.  If Continue Reading

How to Use the ‘Map of Emotions’

March 5, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

How to Use the ‘Map of Emotions’

As you practice recognizing the emotions in you - just like a musician practices musical scales and an artist practices mixing paint - you can begin to use this awareness in an empowering, life-changing way.  You are no longer at the whim of whatever emotion arises in you.  You can determine what you feel, and when. Why is this so valuable? Because what we are feeling emotionally is a direct reflection of what we are thinking.  And Continue Reading

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #17 – Being / Is / Enlightenment

March 1, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #17 – Being / Is / Enlightenment

Enlightenment is a word more and more frequently used in our society. For many of us who 'contemplate it', we assume that it is an endpoint.  In fact, it is a doorway.  Through the doorway of enlightenment we access realms of experience - and of consciousness - that we can barely dream of now.  Enlightenment is the beginning of our rediscovering - who we truly are. For a brief instant, step into the energy field of enlightenment - of just Continue Reading

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #16 – Peace

February 28, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #16 – Peace

Peace is a state of being. We use it so freely as a word - in contrast to war, to upheaval, to unrest.  Yet so few of us have 'tasted' it. For a brief instant, step into the energy field of peace. Memories may flash in you, like snapshots on a movie screen.  You may feel sensations in your body or hear inner voices.  Notice how your body responds.  How does it feel?  How does your heart feel?  What do you notice about your breath? Be Continue Reading

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #15 – Joy

February 27, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #15 – Joy

Joy is a realm of existence rarely experienced by humans thus far. It is like rarified air, high up in the peaks, the farthest altitudes accessible by humans. And yet it is within our grasp, now.  As we learn how to navigate this 'Map of Emotions', we discover that Joy is our birthright.  It is our origin.  It is our natural, innermost state.  We are Joy. For a brief instant, step into the energy field of Joy. Memories may flash in Continue Reading

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #14 – Love

February 26, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #14 – Love

Love is an energy field. As humans we get caught in an 'idea' of love.  We think we know what it is.  What we typically deem 'love' is a fleeting moment of good feeling dependent on an outside source. True love - the energy field - is a radiant glow.  It holds us in its warmth.  It nourishes us.  It reminds us, eternally, of who we really are.  Love feeds our spirit.  It is the beginning of our living as a spirit … in form. For a brief Continue Reading

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #11 – Willingness

February 21, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #11 – Willingness

Willingness is the first sign of 'spring' - of the maturity of the human mind/ego. It is the transition from mind/ego driven living to soul guided living. As we enter the energy field of willingness, we are open to ease, to synchronicities, to flow.  We are open to 'miracles'.  As we become willing, there is little to 'do'.  We are less driven and more inspired.  We shift from mind domination to a trust that something greater than us is Continue Reading

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #9 – Courage

February 19, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #9 – Courage

Courage is the tipping point.  It is the eye of the needle, the fulcrum point between the downward suction of debilitating emotional states and the upward spiral of life. If you were to ask people randomly on a street corner if they are familiar with the experience of one thing going wrong and then a 'mud slide' of things in their life falling apart, most people would immediately, triumphantly list to you a litany of examples.  If you were to Continue Reading

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #8 – Pride

February 18, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #8 – Pride

Pride is where many nations - including America - are snagged.  Healthy pride gives us a sense of our accomplishments - of our inherent good.  Entrenched pride obscures our vision and holds us captive to our ego.  It justifies our actions and holds us in a self-named place of 'hero'. Healthy pride gives us a sense of confidence and a consistent glow in our inner furnace enabling us to carry on with our upward spiral movement.  It signals to us Continue Reading

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Ariole K. Alei is respected as a global visionary for over 20 years. She is an executive life and leadership coach, author of eight books, speaker, facilitator, transformational process designer, tele summit leader, mentor, dancer, choreographer, meditator and yogini. She has met personally with His Holiness the Dalai Lama and other world leaders to discuss her visions of “A New Model of Exemplary Global Leadership”. She has been passionately bringing out the best in others since she was a child. Ariole has co-founded two corporate consulting practices – “bringing spirit into the concrete world” – and two non-profit societies. She is the initiator of numerous transformative consciousness explorations including "A Global Gathering of Minds", "Lifting the Lid", and "The H.O.P.E. Retreats". Ariole generously shares pragmatic and profound ‘routes’ to deeper insight, peace and awakening. She lives in the Rocky Mountains of Canada. "We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Einstein "You must be the change you want to see in the world." - Mahatma Gandhi "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." - Margaret Meade "Carpe Diem - Seize the Day"

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