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‘What Tension Am I Holding That I Don’t Need?’ – Part 2

February 28, 2011 By Ariole K. Alei

I’ve been asked numerous times over the thirty-five years I’ve been practicing daily Yoga if I would ‘teach’.  (It’s a ‘cosmic joke’ that I’m apparently chronologically forty-nine.  I feel perpetually like I’m twenty-eight, and sometimes like I’m fourteen!) 

            For years I adamantly, though graciously, replied ‘No’.  Yoga was my private, cherished companion.  As a performing artist who was transparently visible onstage, it was my physical communion with myself that wasn’t public.  It was my preparation to be in the public eye.

            And so I always declined, ‘No’.

            Until 1999.  I was asked yet again, and this time it was time to say, ‘Yes’.

            I jumped in to the deep end, offering ‘Corporate Yoga’ classes as part of the Custom-Designed Wellness Programs that I was creating at the time.  Seventy-five people attended the first class.

            What was the all-time favorite asana (Sanskrit for posture) among the participants?  Savasana!  People were so desperately thirsty to relax.

            I quickly discovered (thanks to reflective comments from numerous students) that I naturally taught in a ‘hypnotic fashion’.  Metaphors streamed forth from me.  My vocal tone induced people into deep states of relaxation and inner peace.

            I never knew what the ‘thread’ of a class would be as I began ‘teaching’ it.  It taught itself through me.  ‘Themes’ would appear – via metaphors.  Deliciously nourishing and inspiring themes.

            A ‘question’ that began to flow forth from me, as participants were releasing deeper, Yin-like into asanas, “What tension are you holding that you don’t need?”

            Ahhhh …  To witness the subtle and profound shifts in people’s bodies, hearts, and minds as they settled into to self-asking that question was absolutely glorious.  People loved taking that question within and noticing the shifts that it brought about.

            ‘What tension are you holding that you don’t need?’

            Ask it of yourself – right now …

            What do you notice?

            Breathe … and keep asking it of yourself, at occasional intervals …

            What do you notice?  What subtly shifts?

Read more in “‘What Tension Am I Holding That I Don’t Need?’ – Part 1” and “Savasana – The Deepest Rest Around!”

Questions to Ponder:  What tension are you holding that you don’t need?  Physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually?  Ideas, worries, suppositions, anxieties, frustrations …

Ask yourself this magical question … and watch as your body / heart / mind / spirit releases them …

Are you interested in 1-1 mentoring  in exploring this magical question further for yourself?  

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Ariole K. Alei is respected as a global visionary for over 20 years. She is an executive life and leadership coach, author of eight books, speaker, facilitator, transformational process designer, tele summit leader, mentor, dancer, choreographer, meditator and yogini. She has met personally with His Holiness the Dalai Lama and other world leaders to discuss her visions of “A New Model of Exemplary Global Leadership”. She has been passionately bringing out the best in others since she was a child. Ariole has co-founded two corporate consulting practices – “bringing spirit into the concrete world” – and two non-profit societies. She is the initiator of numerous transformative consciousness explorations including "A Global Gathering of Minds", "Lifting the Lid", and "The H.O.P.E. Retreats". Ariole generously shares pragmatic and profound ‘routes’ to deeper insight, peace and awakening. She lives in the Rocky Mountains of Canada. "We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Einstein "You must be the change you want to see in the world." - Mahatma Gandhi "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." - Margaret Meade "Carpe Diem - Seize the Day"

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