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The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #3 – Apathy

February 9, 2012 By Ariole K. Alei

The ‘Map of Emotions’ – #3 – Apathy

Apathy is actually more energizing than shame or guilt. There is more potential for empowerment and self leadership here.  Although there is an absence of inspiration or active energy, apathy is lighter and less 'fossilized'. In apathy there is a sense of hopelessness and despair - yet these perceptions exist only from within the vantage of being in apathy.  As soon as we lift ourselves out of it - into the observer position or into an Continue Reading

Abdication of Power – Part 1

August 24, 2011 By Ariole K. Alei

Abdication of Power – Part 1

We have been taught – at least since several generations back – to abdicate our power and thus our responsibility to others: to others ‘outside’ of us, rather than to rely on and trust our own innate abilities, wisdom, and discernment.              We have been taught – without even a word being spoken – at an early age to acquiesce the well-being of our body to a doctor; our teeth to a dentist; our mental health to a psychologist; our Continue Reading

“Be The Wave” Free Intro – Participate In This Evolutionary Global Community

August 9, 2011 By Ariole K. Alei

“Be The Wave” Free Intro – Participate In This Evolutionary Global Community

Turn on your light. Shine it brightly, that others, too, may reduce and completely release their suffering. For as we suffer less, our energy, love, and attention become available to serve beyond ourselves. No longer fixated on our own survival and the quelling of our personal fears, we become available – available to innovate, to co-create, to communicate,  and to connect.                          Join in a global community of 'peer pioneers'. Continue Reading

The Wright Brothers

July 27, 2011 By Ariole K. Alei

The Wright Brothers

One of my favorite stories of ‘leadership’ and of ‘change’ is of the Wright Brothers. I’m an abstract storyteller, so please forgive me if the ‘details’ of this story are not historically absolutely precise!             Imagine yourself …  As if you were alive, in the town where the Wright Brothers lived, when they began publicly expressing their ‘visions’ that a silver bird could fly.             Ha!  Most people surely mocked them, Continue Reading

Simple Examples of Conscious Actions – A Check List

April 12, 2011 By Ariole K. Alei

Simple Examples of Conscious Actions – A Check List

Here is a simple primer of how to make a difference in this world …  Waste less – food, paper, toilet paper, light, heat, air conditioning, fuel. Give more – love, support, wisdom, ideas.  Buy consciously – fair trade (people are paid fair wages for the work that they do), organic (it doesn't pollute air, water or soil with toxins), EMF friendly (cell phone and microwave technologies are cited as confusing the navigating Continue Reading

Leadership

August 19, 2010 By Ariole K. Alei

Leadership

What is leadership?             Who are our leaders?             Where are they?             These are three of the most important questions we can ask ourselves today.             I was a young child when I first realized that our leaders may not be who and where we assume them to be.             I was watching a televised program of the Canadian House of Commons.  The behavior of our supposed leaders as they harassed and bullied Continue Reading

What Makes A Leader A Leader?

August 18, 2010 By Ariole K. Alei

What Makes A Leader A Leader?

Firstly, I'd like to qualify that just because someone promotes a popular opinion and has many followers, this doesn't intrinsically make them a Leader in the essential definition I am about to present. Many people 'lead' through might, brutality and peer pressure.  These manipulative tactics can be physical, emotional and / or mental.  Threatening to deprive someone of something essential is often enough to have them submit to coercion.  This Continue Reading

What I Learned from The World Cup

July 13, 2010 By Ariole K. Alei

What I Learned from The World Cup

            It was magnificent to watch elements of the World Cup.  An athlete myself, I love seeing the heights of mastery to which humans reach.             Early into the series, my husband came home ecstatic one day.  He’d just watched a match with the young Germany team.  The key to his excitement?  “They played into the space!”  He kept repeating this, repeating this, like a new discovery, a mantra.             Together we watched the Continue Reading

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Ariole K. Alei is respected as a global visionary for over 20 years. She is an executive life and leadership coach, author of eight books, speaker, facilitator, transformational process designer, tele summit leader, mentor, dancer, choreographer, meditator and yogini. She has met personally with His Holiness the Dalai Lama and other world leaders to discuss her visions of “A New Model of Exemplary Global Leadership”. She has been passionately bringing out the best in others since she was a child. Ariole has co-founded two corporate consulting practices – “bringing spirit into the concrete world” – and two non-profit societies. She is the initiator of numerous transformative consciousness explorations including "A Global Gathering of Minds", "Lifting the Lid", and "The H.O.P.E. Retreats". Ariole generously shares pragmatic and profound ‘routes’ to deeper insight, peace and awakening. She lives in the Rocky Mountains of Canada. "We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them." – Einstein "You must be the change you want to see in the world." - Mahatma Gandhi "Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." - Margaret Meade "Carpe Diem - Seize the Day"

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